People says, the world theater. There, take great drama of human life. With each self as the main players. With each role that is different each other. With the identity that is not true. By hiding behind polah farrago. As the form of runaway self terlunta-lunta. Way of life due to dark-dark. For the rays of divine light as the work of his life ...!
Up to, do not wonder if the relationship between each other ... the relationship between humans, between the private ... between you ... and I can rarely bersua. In fact, not an impossible, we do not 'have a mutual relative. In a brotherhood of sterling.
Brotherhood that is where "you" is not a "foreign", a "he." Fraternity where "you" is not the "bran-barantah" look in the face of the accident. Relationship is not useful because you make me. Not anymore because the relationship you and I often meet. Relationship is not because we greet each other. Not too smart of fellowship because we said prayers. Not because we are one brotherhood shade, one organization or one of the nation. Moreover, because advanced-act!
But, more than all that. More than just mutual sapa. More than just mutual jabat. Is also more than just a discussion, drag the sound. Not an impossibility because of all that is only ostensibly. A sense of grace. Just wanted to show we can still modest in the midst of mass galauan ...!
Yes, that is the relationship where 'you' and 'I' smelt so 'we'. Ignites in love and grief. United in a togetherness, but in the real. With silaturrahmi bridge emasnya. He 'is far beyond love. Bertahta in kemaujudan drop and syorga. Reside in the human heart full of faith that a loving brothers. There into a new goal. Duhai ... who will not see it jealous?!
Fraternity-level stages
Man ... whoever he is, always related each other. Between parents with children. Between the husband and wife. Between the grandfather grandmother. Between laborers with employers. Between members of the leadership. Between you-me-us-them ... in short, all!
However, if we observe carefully, the interrelasi seems to be up 3 stairs (level). Start from the bottom of the stairs, the width to the top of many people. Stairs up to the highest, which is small with few people in there. For indeed who are not how menggapainya. Questions also arise. Position where we are?
Appliances First: Basa Basi -
This is the level / brotherhood of the most low. Most weak. Even may be spelled out, this is the quasi-fraternity! On this, speech is usually a charge out of politeness. For example: "Hey, how are you? How to ... where? ... How are you now? Wah, tambah cantik aja kau! ... Stop by briefly, yaa? "
In fact the only doubt. He terlontar simply "fill the vacuum", membuyarkan clumsiness and awkwardness. Individual attitudes are in a "malingerer." We did not intend anything with the words. Want to know is, do not!
This is the brotherhood that is common in the bus, parties or "ngomong-ngomong" with the neighbors. No meeting occurred, let alone brotherhood. In the actual meaning. Each free-play pua, act or speak only empty-just-polite polite. Yes, their substance still 'own', although both sit, be together.
Indeed, it is not strange that if that happens because new acquaintances, meet new each other. However, reality often shows another. Despite almost every day meet, which occurs not more than just another nod, do each other (sometimes wishes salam), cheek raise each other ... I smiled. Even quasi-free!
More about ... more often they meet face-. Each time you meet, each utter prayers, "Assalamu'alaikum". But only good manners! Not the least are in the heart of safety on a fellow brother's faith. This is the brotherhood that is not very mean anything!
So do not wonder, if the brotherhood of Islam is just a ladder ... he will not produce any results. Persatuan Islam akan difficult people and realized rahmatan lil 'alamin also raised difficult! A very sad, is not it?
Appliances Second: The head DuaTempurung
Of this, starting a few high-rises. They no longer bertegur-in the sense I just doubt. They mengucap prayers be not more. Not remove the "choke". Or fear of not spelled polite, and so forth.
In the second of this ... can dikata, ongoing dialogue has begun. Have started the relationship involved. Despite still a 'fill in the head'. But clearly, they have already started 'nyali' to take the risk on some other people's ideas, opinion, decision, and so forth.
Indeed, perhaps a new beginning to the stage to discuss other people. This arises because there is shyness, shyness, feelings of fear "expose" private self. In the dialog that happens, we usually have a quite happy to discuss thoughts, ideas and behavior of others. We still do not dare to speak 'you' and 'I'.
Thus, at this stage, still feeling terselimuti clumsy, stiff, reluctant. Discussion also appear as formal. If 'forced' laughter, most only create a "like" the hearts of others. Or if not, yes he said that "know-polite polite!"
Usually, that happens to people who start more new acquaintances. But also often occurs in people who have long "seatap" but always alive in formilan-formal atmosphere.
In a group discussion it is often the case. When fellow members met there to talk, but very clumsy. Many speech and fad seems contrived. Sometimes they were even a whim. In fact, they rarely do not feel tortured themselves with the meeting ...! Up to the time they separated once relieved ... it seems. As if just release one million deadweight tons! Fear the most shameful, is not it?
However, after going through the process so long, eventually also involved in a dialogue. "You" and "I" is not more talk "he", not more talk of others. Now, the 'we' were the talk "ourselves". But, is still a 'fill in the' course. Dialogue that occurred a new form of dialogue between ideas, between ideas. Not "from the heart to heart".
Appliances Third: The emotional
This is the relationship between humans in a pertautan emotionally. And this also makes sense that a relationship is a very enjoyable experience.
Yes, 'you' and 'I' begin to speak the content of his heart. "You" are willing to disclose some start from yourself. "I" is ready would start approaching the door of your heart. We have started a mutual self, meaning actually.
In this stage, we not only tells us about the content of the head. But more than that, the contents of our hearts. Apalah mean fruit-pikiranku. Content that meets the head is not something too special. -People may agree or may not agree with gagasanku. If kulempar one idea to the people ... may many who support pikiranku ago. And then ... and then spread into the property with us. But ... a feeling, emotional flood that is the idea behind it ... even the idea of actually building it ... the official property of mine. He is the typical form myself.
Clearly, no one will be exactly the same heart with the heart. No one shall have a spark of religion with the exact same perasaanku. No one has frustrated, or feel the suffering shock appetite exactly as I experienced. I was not exactly the same feeling kebencianku the corruption that is also the feeling of you ... naturally!
In short ... my heart and your heart is! He vibrates at a frequency that is different. Believe ...!
*** Author: nilna iqbal
Up to, do not wonder if the relationship between each other ... the relationship between humans, between the private ... between you ... and I can rarely bersua. In fact, not an impossible, we do not 'have a mutual relative. In a brotherhood of sterling.
Brotherhood that is where "you" is not a "foreign", a "he." Fraternity where "you" is not the "bran-barantah" look in the face of the accident. Relationship is not useful because you make me. Not anymore because the relationship you and I often meet. Relationship is not because we greet each other. Not too smart of fellowship because we said prayers. Not because we are one brotherhood shade, one organization or one of the nation. Moreover, because advanced-act!
But, more than all that. More than just mutual sapa. More than just mutual jabat. Is also more than just a discussion, drag the sound. Not an impossibility because of all that is only ostensibly. A sense of grace. Just wanted to show we can still modest in the midst of mass galauan ...!
Yes, that is the relationship where 'you' and 'I' smelt so 'we'. Ignites in love and grief. United in a togetherness, but in the real. With silaturrahmi bridge emasnya. He 'is far beyond love. Bertahta in kemaujudan drop and syorga. Reside in the human heart full of faith that a loving brothers. There into a new goal. Duhai ... who will not see it jealous?!
Fraternity-level stages
Man ... whoever he is, always related each other. Between parents with children. Between the husband and wife. Between the grandfather grandmother. Between laborers with employers. Between members of the leadership. Between you-me-us-them ... in short, all!
However, if we observe carefully, the interrelasi seems to be up 3 stairs (level). Start from the bottom of the stairs, the width to the top of many people. Stairs up to the highest, which is small with few people in there. For indeed who are not how menggapainya. Questions also arise. Position where we are?
Appliances First: Basa Basi -
This is the level / brotherhood of the most low. Most weak. Even may be spelled out, this is the quasi-fraternity! On this, speech is usually a charge out of politeness. For example: "Hey, how are you? How to ... where? ... How are you now? Wah, tambah cantik aja kau! ... Stop by briefly, yaa? "
In fact the only doubt. He terlontar simply "fill the vacuum", membuyarkan clumsiness and awkwardness. Individual attitudes are in a "malingerer." We did not intend anything with the words. Want to know is, do not!
This is the brotherhood that is common in the bus, parties or "ngomong-ngomong" with the neighbors. No meeting occurred, let alone brotherhood. In the actual meaning. Each free-play pua, act or speak only empty-just-polite polite. Yes, their substance still 'own', although both sit, be together.
Indeed, it is not strange that if that happens because new acquaintances, meet new each other. However, reality often shows another. Despite almost every day meet, which occurs not more than just another nod, do each other (sometimes wishes salam), cheek raise each other ... I smiled. Even quasi-free!
More about ... more often they meet face-. Each time you meet, each utter prayers, "Assalamu'alaikum". But only good manners! Not the least are in the heart of safety on a fellow brother's faith. This is the brotherhood that is not very mean anything!
So do not wonder, if the brotherhood of Islam is just a ladder ... he will not produce any results. Persatuan Islam akan difficult people and realized rahmatan lil 'alamin also raised difficult! A very sad, is not it?
Appliances Second: The head DuaTempurung
Of this, starting a few high-rises. They no longer bertegur-in the sense I just doubt. They mengucap prayers be not more. Not remove the "choke". Or fear of not spelled polite, and so forth.
In the second of this ... can dikata, ongoing dialogue has begun. Have started the relationship involved. Despite still a 'fill in the head'. But clearly, they have already started 'nyali' to take the risk on some other people's ideas, opinion, decision, and so forth.
Indeed, perhaps a new beginning to the stage to discuss other people. This arises because there is shyness, shyness, feelings of fear "expose" private self. In the dialog that happens, we usually have a quite happy to discuss thoughts, ideas and behavior of others. We still do not dare to speak 'you' and 'I'.
Thus, at this stage, still feeling terselimuti clumsy, stiff, reluctant. Discussion also appear as formal. If 'forced' laughter, most only create a "like" the hearts of others. Or if not, yes he said that "know-polite polite!"
Usually, that happens to people who start more new acquaintances. But also often occurs in people who have long "seatap" but always alive in formilan-formal atmosphere.
In a group discussion it is often the case. When fellow members met there to talk, but very clumsy. Many speech and fad seems contrived. Sometimes they were even a whim. In fact, they rarely do not feel tortured themselves with the meeting ...! Up to the time they separated once relieved ... it seems. As if just release one million deadweight tons! Fear the most shameful, is not it?
However, after going through the process so long, eventually also involved in a dialogue. "You" and "I" is not more talk "he", not more talk of others. Now, the 'we' were the talk "ourselves". But, is still a 'fill in the' course. Dialogue that occurred a new form of dialogue between ideas, between ideas. Not "from the heart to heart".
Appliances Third: The emotional
This is the relationship between humans in a pertautan emotionally. And this also makes sense that a relationship is a very enjoyable experience.
Yes, 'you' and 'I' begin to speak the content of his heart. "You" are willing to disclose some start from yourself. "I" is ready would start approaching the door of your heart. We have started a mutual self, meaning actually.
In this stage, we not only tells us about the content of the head. But more than that, the contents of our hearts. Apalah mean fruit-pikiranku. Content that meets the head is not something too special. -People may agree or may not agree with gagasanku. If kulempar one idea to the people ... may many who support pikiranku ago. And then ... and then spread into the property with us. But ... a feeling, emotional flood that is the idea behind it ... even the idea of actually building it ... the official property of mine. He is the typical form myself.
Clearly, no one will be exactly the same heart with the heart. No one shall have a spark of religion with the exact same perasaanku. No one has frustrated, or feel the suffering shock appetite exactly as I experienced. I was not exactly the same feeling kebencianku the corruption that is also the feeling of you ... naturally!
In short ... my heart and your heart is! He vibrates at a frequency that is different. Believe ...!
*** Author: nilna iqbal
